San Gabriel Valley Tribune

Officer killed in Iraq will never know son
By Sara A. Carter
Staff Writer

Friday, June 17, 2005 - Four weeks ago, Rosanna Baez sent her husband, Petty Officer 2nd Class Cesar Baez, the surprise of his life.

Baez, 37, a Navy hospital corpsman in Iraq, had received a care package in the hot desert with a message glued to the top: a blue baby bootie.

The father of three young girls was going to have a fourth child in September, "a baby boy,' said his father Cesar Baez. "He really wanted a baby boy.'

"He called everybody in the family,' said Bernardina Baez, his mother. "He was so happy.'

But the young hospital corpsman would never know the son he always wanted. The 14-year military veteran was one of several men killed while conducting combat operations in the al- Anbar province on Wednesday.

"He was a real patriot,' his father said. "But the pain I'm feeling right now is indescribable. He loved, served his country ... died for his country but I wish I had him back.'

A corpsman with a Marine patrol, Baez was killed by small- arms fire, said Navy spokeswoman on Friday. He had served 10 years in the Navy after serving four years in the Marine Corps.

He attended Garey High and later received his diploma after classes at Pomona Adult School. His mother said he had hoped to become a doctor.

He married his wife Rosanna when they both were in training at the Great Lakes Naval Hospital. His wife lives at Camp Pendleton with their daughters, Isabel, 8, Sydney, 5, and Suzy, 4.

Rep. Grace Napolitano, D-Santa Fe Springs, said she was saddened by the news and would visit the family after she returns from Washington, D.C., this weekend.

Napolitano, who visited the wounded at Bethesda Naval Hospital last week, spoke of her admiration for the military men and women who have sacrificed their lives, limbs and comfort for the country, she said.

But stories like Baez's are especially tragic, she added.

"Our heart goes out to the family, to his wife,' Napolitano said. "It's hard to put into words how you feel, the concern you have for the loss of a loved one, especially for the parents. We are so proud of the children who have gone off to war, but sometimes you wish you could bring them all back home.'

On Wednesday, after the Navy chaplain left, Cesar Baez tore down the large yellow ribbon he had tied to the oak tree in his front yard.

He got in his car and rushed to his wife's work to tell her the news.

"I couldn't stop myself,' he said. "I screamed the whole time. I drove my car screaming and crying. It didn't matter to me what anyone thought. The pain of losing my son is unexplainable.'

On Friday, the yellow ribbon was still where it had fallen.

"My son will live on through his son,' Bernardina Baez said, as she glanced at the ribbon on the grass. "And we will never forget him.'

Sara A. Carter can be reached at (909) 483-8552, or by e-mail at sara.carter@dailybulletin.com .

Copyright © 2005 San Gabriel Valley Tribune

Inland Valley Daily Bulletin

Pomona man dies during combat in al-Anbar province
Family mourns loss of sailor
By Sara A. Carter
Staff Writer

Friday, June 17, 2005 - POMONA - Four weeks ago Rosanna Baez sent her husband, Petty Officer 2nd Class Cesar Baez, the surprise of his life.

Baez, 37, a Navy hospital corpsman in Iraq received a care package in the hot desert with a message glued to the top: a blue baby bootee.

The father of three young girls was going to have a fourth child in September, "a baby boy," said his father, Cesar Baez. "He really wanted a baby boy."

"He called everybody in the family," said Bernardina Baez, his mother. "He was so happy."

But the young hospital corpsman will never know the son he always wanted. The 14-year military veteran was one of several men killed while conducting combat operations in the al-Anbar province Wednesday.

"He was a real patriot," his father said. "But the pain I'm feeling right now is indescribable. He loved, served his country ... died for his country, but I wish I had him back."

A corpsman with a Marine patrol, Baez was killed by small arms fire, said a Navy spokeswoman Friday. He had served 10 years in the Navy after serving four years in the Marine Corps.

He attended Garey High and later received his diploma after classes at Pomona Adult School. His mother said he hoped to eventually become a doctor.

He married his wife, Rosanna, when they were in training at the Great Lakes Naval Hospital. His wife lives at Camp Pendleton with their daughters, Isabel, 8, Sydney, 5, and Suzy, 4.

Baez's parents received the news Wednesday afternoon. A Navy chaplain arrived at their home with a message no one wanted to hear.

"I'm sorry to inform you ..." was as far as the chaplain got, before the the distraught father asked him to stop talking.

Baez's father already knew, in his heart, that his first-born son had been killed in combat.

The 68-year-old father could not speak. He stood stunned wondering if the reality of the news would give him, a man with a heart condition, another attack.

He wanted to run or walk away. But there was nowhere to go. No escape, he said.

"When the chaplain walked to my door I just knew," he said, as tears swelled in his eyes. "I wanted to run, disappear ... I was angry at God, and I was in shock."

So instead, the distraught father walked to the back of the house, sat on his swing chair, and reflected on the memories of his young son. He remembered a gregarious boy who loved to play among the guava, banana and various other fruit trees that adorned the back yard. He remembered little Cesar's smile.

"I couldn't speak," he said. "I told the chaplain not to say a word."

The chaplain, honoring the grieving father's wishes, sat next to him in silence, he said.

Rep. Grace Napolitano, D-Santa Fe Springs, said that she was saddened by the news and would visit the family after she returns from Washington, D.C., this weekend.

Napolitano, who visited the wounded at Bethesda Naval Hospital last week, spoke of her admiration for the military men and women who have sacrificed their lives, limbs and comfort for the country, she said.

But stories like Baez's are especially tragic, she added.

"Our heart goes out to the family, to his wife," Napolitano said. "It's hard to put into words how you feel, the concern you have for the loss of a loved one especially for the parents. We are so proud of the children who have gone off to war, but sometimes you wish you could bring them all back home."

On Friday, the parents received a call from their younger son, Marine Staff Sgt. Roger Baez, who is stationed in Germany.

Roger Baez informed his parents that he would accompany his brother's body from Delaware to California, on Sunday or Monday.

"They'll be together for the last time," said his aunt Christina Flores, who was comforting her sister, Bernardina, at her home. "Roger needs that time alone with his older brother. He needs that time to say goodbye."

Pictures of the once young Baez family decorated the walls and shelves of the family room. Photographs of the former Garey High student in his band uniform, baby pictures and photos of the rambunctious Baez goofing off with his siblings brought smiles to the grieving family members in the house.

But for now the smiles are short-lived.

On Wednesday, after the Navy chaplain left, Cesar Baez tore down the large yellow ribbon he had tied to the oak tree in his front yard.

He got in his car and rushed to his wife's work to tell her the news.

"I couldn't stop myself," he said. "I screamed the whole time. I drove my car screaming and crying. It didn't matter to me what anyone thought. The pain of losing my son is unexplainable."

On Friday, the yellow ribbon was still where it had fallen.

"My son will live on through his son," Bernardina Baez said, as she glanced at the ribbon on the grass. "And we will never forget him."


- Sara A. Carter can be reached by e-mail at sara.carter@dailybulletin.com or by phone at (909) 483-8552.

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