It's the risk you take to be out there.
The date rapes. The coercion. The getting them drunk. The walking in the wrong place. The begging. Too many rapes to count and attempted rapes. It's the risk we take to be out there. Trying to live our lives. In Minnesota, that's the boys' way or getting sex. Give them drinks. We live with it here. Oh, and the stalking, when you say get lost! Stalking for years, five years. Cant take no here. The boys in Minnesota are nuts! Scary fuckers. Don't marry one for sure! They think you are a friend forever and a girlfriend forever. Or the ones that lock you in the basement, put you outside naked. Or the ones that break all your furniture cause mad. Or the ones that want to run into a 18 wheeler truck cause you won't marry him.
Or the one that dumped you out the car in a fight. And there are worse stories!